The real cost of living: Would $150,000 make you happy?

As we in Los Angeles gather for the TogetherLA conference Feb. 26-28, I can’t help but think that at some point churches need to get together to talk about not only housing for those experiencing homelessness like my friends at Union Rescue Mission, but also housing for the working professionally but unable to get ahead. Making $100,000 in today’s economy is worth 20% less considering inflation (roughly $80,000) (see my next post for the posting of this now outdate link). This article from MSN seems to be missing from their site so I’ve posted it in entirety below as one perspective to get us thinking about how expensive it is to live in major cities like LA.

The article says that Americans they polled resulted in needing $150,000 for them to be able to live comfortably, and if you were to consider how far $150,000 would go in Peoria, IL, what would it take in another major city? For Los Angeles I calculated that number to be over $200,000. Of course this is unattainable by the vast majority of the people we interact with daily (at least for me). What do you think? Thanks to my friend Therese for getting the conversation started on Facebook today!
The divide between the 1% and the 99% has ignited a national debate about the income gap, especially since Occupy Wall Street protesters descended on lower Manhattan last fall. But how much money does it take to feel financially secure these days?

The answer, at least according to a new survey of Americans by WSL/Strategic Retail, is $150,000. That level of income is more than three times the national median of $49,445 for 2010, and it’s enough to put a household into the top 10% nationally.

The survey asked respondents to choose which of four categories best described them: I can’t even afford the basics; I can barely afford the basics and nothing else; I can afford the basics plus some extras; and I can afford the basics and the extras, and I’m able to save, too. It is only at that $150,000 level that the survey found the vast majority of consumers, 88%, saying they could buy what they need, afford some extras and still be able to save a bit.

Even as the economy improves and consumer confidence builds, more than half of Americans — 52% — feel like they can afford just the basics, and many with six-figure incomes still feel like they are scraping by. The survey found that 18% of U.S. households earning from $100,000 to $150,000 said they could afford only the basics, with an additional 10% saying they sometimes can’t afford even those staples.

“We clearly have what used to be upper middle income — 75 to 150k — folks who are saying it just isn’t so,” says Candace Corlett, the president of WSL/Strategic Retail. “A quarter of them are saying, ‘I can barely afford the basics.'” So while six-figure incomes used to represent affluence, that’s no longer the case.

Of course, as The Fiscal Times has written before, in many parts of the country, an annual income of $250,000 could easily leave a typical family in the red once all their expenses and taxes are factored in.

That $150,000 is based on average costs for housing, food, clothing, etc. — perhaps in a place like Peoria, Ill. If it takes that kind of money to have a decent middle-class life in Peoria, what would it take to match it in a major metropolitan area?

We used Bankrate’s cost-of-living comparison calculator to measure the difference between Peoria and other cities and chose five of the top 10 U.S. cities (not just the top five) with the highest costs of living, according to Kiplinger. We added Chicago to represent the middle of the country.

The New York City area was the most expensive. Equivalent income: $337,311.87. Percent increase to maintain standard of living: 124.9%.
Honolulu area. Equivalent income: $258,099.19. Percent increase to maintain standard of living: 72.1%.
San Francisco area. Equivalent income: $255,409.43. Percent increase to maintain standard of living: 70.3.%.
San Jose, Calif., area. Equivalent income: $243,260.85. Percent increase to maintain standard of living: 62.2%.
Washington, D.C., area. Equivalent income: $218,127.70. Percent increase to maintain standard of living: 45.4%.
Chicago area. Equivalent income: $182,045.06. Percent increase to maintain standard of living: 21.4%.
The struggling economy has clearly created a recession mindset among consumers. When asked how long the recession will continue, 80% of people say three years or more, Corlett says — up from 43% back in 2010. “They may not literally mean the government’s definition of a recession, but they certainly mean a recessionary mindset for them,” Corlett says.

Those financial pressures have made consumers much more cost-conscious. Three-quarters of women now say it’s “important to get the lowest price on everything they buy,” up 12 percentage points from 2008 and 22 percentage points from 2004. To that end, more are using coupons (68% vs. 61% in 2010) and buying only when items are on sale (45% vs. 38% in 2010).

And, perhaps unsurprisingly, young people — those from the ages of 18 to 34, who have long been the prized target of marketers — were more likely than other age groups to say they don’t have enough money to cover their basic needs. Nearly a quarter of those surveyed put themselves in that group, compared with 17% of those age 35 to 54 and 13% of people 55 or older.

An IRS breakdown of U.S. incomes, released the day after the consumer survey, provides a reminder of why people, even those with six-figure incomes, may be feeling poorer. For tax year 2010, adjusted gross incomes reported to the IRS rose 5.2% to $8 trillion total — the first increase after a couple of years of declines. But while tax filers making more than $250,000 saw their total incomes climb almost 14%, those earning from $50,000 to $100,000 gained just 1.5%.

*The article was originally here but no longer a working link: http://money.msn.com/family-money/article.aspx?post=c20e622f-9f80-4b2d-90fd-164ead94b9b1

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Free Dinner and Tim Keller!

TogetherLAdinnerNext week will be a historic gathering of many of the Christian leaders and churches that are in Los Angeles. Pastor Tim Keller will be coming and I’m looking forward to all the women and men from various denominations, ethnic groups and theological affinities to join together to seek understanding as to how to join God in blessing our city. I’m hosting a dinner prior to the Tim Keller talk with a panel discussion on “Revival in the City: Azusa Street Then and Now.” I hope you’ll RSVP below.

Tim Keller had a large role in Kati and I leaving our previous ministry (which we really loved) and coming to LA. Back in the fall of 2010, Tim Keller had a rather intimate meet-and-greet in LA where he simply shared about the need for pastors and leaders to commit to the 11th most populous global metro area and one of the most influential cities in the world–Los Angeles. After he spoke there was a Q&A time and I had the chance to ask the last question regarding Keller’s point that church renewal always happens in the city center first. My question was, “In LA, where is the center of the city?” But just as I was about to ask Keller this important question, his handlers swept him away! (actually his assistant simply didn’t want him to be overwhelmed with another question so they ended the Q&A time and left me hanging).

But after the crowd started to disperse, Keller came to me and Kati personally and said, “I’m so sorry about that! I hate that you didn’t get to ask your question. What was it?” And for the next 20 minutes I got to talk with Tim Keller about the importance of church planting and church renewal happening throughout the entire city of LA and in churches and ministries of all shapes and sizes. Keller said, “LA has not one center but probably dozens. You need to do church-planting and church renewal in every neighborhood in LA.” We talked about a lot more stuff and he was so gracious to give us 20 minutes of his time back in 2010. Kati and I never forgot that conversation and it was a pivotal moment for us to begin praying about an opportunity to come to LA to do participate in church renewal and church planting in downtown.

So I’m hoping you’ll come and hear Tim Keller live on Saturday February 28th at 7PM after the dinner or join me for the whole conference (Feb.26-28). You won’t regret it and maybe the Spirit will convict you as well about joining God in blessing the city!

You can RSVP here for the 5:30PM dinner and Azusa Street discussion (free): http://unionchurchla.celebrations.com/TogetherLaDinner

Register here for the Saturday night Tim Keller speaking event after dinner discussion (free) event: http://togetherla2015saturday.splashthat.com/

And here for the conference and workshops with Tim Keller Thursday – Saturday (use TLA30 for a discount): http://togetherla2015.splashthat.com/

 

 

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How to Forgive

Paul’s charge to welcome others

Our church in downtown Los Angeles is going through Romans 15 as part of our Christ-Formation series. Paul is writing to the divided church in Rome around 57 CE and imploring them to get along. Verse 7 is especially rich: “Therefore welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God” (ESV). There is the idea of acceptance in this verse based upon Christ’s actions toward us. How has Christ welcomed Christians? Certainly by first forgiving them.

Paul exhorts the Christians in Rome to welcome one another even though their differences are real. Since Jesus accepted you, you should do the same. One of the most welcoming actions the Christians in Rome could do was to forgive their fellow believers! Does it surprise you that since the earliest days the Church has been a place where you can get hurt? A pastor disappoints you, a church splits, or some other negative experience that drove you away from the Church for years. Since the very beginning of this God-ordained movement called the Church, it’s been full of imperfect people who failed to live up to their name. God is grieved that His Body has often failed to be the grace-filled, reconciling place that He intends it to be. There is no perfect church. The saying goes, if you ever find a perfect church then you’ll have to leave it if you don’t want to ruin it. Ghandi famously said that he was very impressed with Christ but not so much the Christians. Every one of us is imperfect so the Church is the perfect place for imperfect people. Paul’s teaching in Romans 15 is not only about accepting those different from you but forgiving those who have hurt you. Often that means forgiving Christians that have hurt you and that can be even harder! If a non-Christian hurts you then you can at least think, “Well, they don’t know any better!” We all have been hurt and none of us wants to be stuck in the paralyzed state of being unable to forgive. Even with Christ in our lives we are still capable of hurting others and find it hard to forgive those who have hurt us or failed us. How can we learn to forgive? I want to talk about two things: how to forgive someone and how to forgive yourself.

Forgiving oneself

If we want to grow then forgiveness is part of the path. Sometimes the hardest person to forgive is yourself. Eric Metaxas shares a story in his book, Miracles, about the actor April Hernandez, whom you might know from appearing in Freedom Writers with Hilary Swank or HBO’s Dexter. April grew up a poor and troubled youth in the Bronx, stuck in a series of abusive relationships. She found herself pregnant and went to the abortion clinic thinking it her only option. Waiting for the procedure she knew she didn’t want to go through with the procedure but through tears she consented to the abortion. Immediately after she awoke she knew she had made a mistake and carried the guilt for years. Even when she started attending church she sat in the back feeling distant from God, unable to forgive herself. But one day as the preacher spoke, something he said about forgiveness struck her. She wanted to be free from this guilt and through tears she came forward as the preacher instructed, crying out to God, “Father, forgive me!” In that moment she felt an energy pour though her, sending her to the ground. While lying there God spoke to her: “I forgive you my daughter, cry no more.” She knew it was God! Then He said, “But I need you to forgive yourself.”

Jesus says if we want to truly be His disciples than we are to love God with our heart, soul, mind and strength and love our neighbor as we love ourselves. How can you love your neighbor if you don’t love yourself? How can you forgive your neighbor if you can’t allow God’s forgiveness to apply to yourself? God demands that we fully embrace the reality of our identity in Him: forgiven, restored and declared righteous in His eyes. This is who God says you are in Christ so don’t call God a liar by saying you are unforgiveable! Stop disrespecting God by not forgiving yourself when He has already forgiven you. It doesn’t make sense to keep hating the one God calls beloved in Christ–YOU! God wants us to accept our identity in Him and to share that love. Forgiving yourself is where to start.

Forgiving someone because their debt is God’s concern

Paul says in verse 7 to welcome one another because of Christ. Paul again says in Colossians 3:13 to forgive the offender as Christ forgave us. Jesus says in Luke 17 that if someone asks forgiveness seven times we are to forgive seven times. And Jesus Himself on the cross cries out to God, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do” (Luke 23:24). And as He taught His disciples in the Lord’s Prayer, “forgive us our debts as we have also forgiven our debtors” (Matthew 6:12). What is clear from the Bible is that Jesus wants us to forgive because He forgives. Forgiving others is an essential quality of following Jesus. Do you have trouble forgiving others? Forgiving yourself?

When Jesus stopped Paul on his way to persecute the Church, Jesus said, “Saul, Saul why are you persecuting Me?” (Acts 9:4). Jesus takes the pain inflicted by others onto us personally. Those who have sinned against us actually owe a debt to God. Perhaps this one aspect of forgiveness is the one thing you need to hear: Forgiveness means you see that the offernder’s debt ultimately belongs to God and not ultimately to you. This is freeing because you aren’t meant to carry the weight of condemning someone else for their sins. It’s God’s job to judge. You weren’t wired to be God by judging others. That’s why you need to forgive, so you don’t destroy yourself in pretending to be God, holding their debt against them.

Ultimately they owe God much more than they owe you. Jesus doesn’t want you weighed down by un-forgiveness because only He can handle that weight. Does un-forgiveness weigh you down? You were never meant to play God by holding that debt against them.

Forgiveness is not condoning

But forgiveness is in no way condoning someone’s bad behavior. To forgive to is purposely choose a path of love over a path of hate, a path of hope over a path of despair. Verse 7 says to welcome one another just as Christ has welcomed you. It doesn’t say to not press charges or to stay in the toxic relationship or to accept bad behavior. Godly accepting is choosing Christ’s path of life over a path of destruction for them and for you. Yes, Colossians 3:13 says we should forgive because Christ forgave us BUT that doesn’t always mean we always achieve reconciliation with the person. 

Can you really forgive an unrepentant person?

Here’s a question I think about a lot: How can you fully reconcile if someone’s unwilling to sincerely repent? Jesus says in Luke 17 that if a believer has wronged you then you should forgive them AFTER you have rebuked them and AFTER they have repented! Forgiveness that leads to reconciliation requires repentance. You may not be able to fully reconcile with someone who is unsafe or isn’t sincere but you can forgive them to the extent that just as Christ has offered you forgiveness you shouldn’t hold their debt against them. Their debt belongs ultimately to God so I should move toward forgiveness even if they are unrepentant. This forgiveness I offer finds its power not in my own ability to forgive but rests in the fact that Christ has forgiven me and to allow His love to overflow from the center of my life to others. Because I am gifted with God’s unmerited favor, I cannot withhold that possibility of God’s restoring love from someone who has hurt me. No, you can’t fully reconcile with an unrepentant person, but you can pray for them as you move toward forgiveness.

Craig Groeschel, the author of the book, Christian Atheist, learned to pray for the man who had sexually abused his sister. It took months before his prayers became truly sincere but he knew he had to reconcile the gap between what he believed about Christ command to forgive and his inability to forgive this man. So he prayed, “God, I pray you work in his/her life.” Perhaps this is where God wants you to begin as you seek to forgive someone. Would you pray for that person you find it hard to forgive, “God, work in his/her life.”

The harmony that forgiveness brings

In Romans 15:5 Paul encourages believers to live in harmony. I like this picture because in music harmony is about bringing together things that are different to make something beautiful. Harmony in the church consists of imperfect people repenting from their sins toward God and one another because Christ gives them the power to forgive. Forgiveness is not forgetting or condoning or tolerating the offender or the offense in any way but rather a purposeful decision to invite Jesus into the pain in order to embrace His hope.

Pastor and therapist Ken Yabuki says this on forgiveness in his upcoming book, Why Bad Things Happen To Good People And What Can Be Done about It: A Christian Perspective:

“the more I experience God’s grace and forgiveness in my life, the less critical I become toward the imperfections I see in others. It is a liberating experience. The more I come to understand, accept and forgive myself, the easier it is for me to understand, accept and forgive my neighbor.”

In Romans 15, Paul is challenging you to apply forgiveness to others who have hurt you because Christ has first first forgiven you. This is not condoning their bad behavior or an expectation for you to be in relationship again with this person (especially if there is no repentance), but this is a declaration that you understand that the debt they owe is not to totally to you but ultimately a debt to God. Only God can wipe away their debt, their sin, and if there is repentance, Christ’s righteousness comes into their lives. Paul wants you to forgive yourself as well because of Christ’s work on the cross and this will free you to love and forgive others as well.

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Search Me and Stretch Me

search me stretch me band

Psalm 139 begins with David’s recognition of God working intimately in his life and ends with him praying similarly for God’s initiative in his deepest being: “Search me, God, and know my heart…and lead me in the way everlasting.”

I had the privilege of being the guest preacher at a partner church in LA and over 700 people responded to dare to pray this week “Search Me and Stretch Me” as they toured the Sacred Streets exhibit.

How is God stretching you into a new area of ministry, perhaps inside the walls of a church or outside in your everyday life? As He searches you have you considered the “ways of pain” that you are stuck in that are keeping you from seeing your inherent value that God has created you with? Are you stuck in a cycle of toxic thinking, unhealthy relationships and limiting yourself from believing God wants to use you to be a blessing in the city?

Search me and stretch me is a prayer for all of us and I’d like to hear what God is revealing to you as you pray this. I trust you’ll rediscover a God who not only had to come to save you from your sin and brokenness, but One who wanted to come because of deep love for you and His joy in inviting you to partake in His kingdom expansion here on earth as you bless others in His name.

Search me and stretch me…into new ministry…into moving on from habits that hinder me…into courageous trust in God who surprises us with plans and dreams that we would have never come up with on our own.

How is God stretching you? I want to know!

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The Wonder of God

sacred streets artJason Leith is bringing his amazing Sacred Streets exhibit to Los Angeles on Sunday August 4 at Bel Air Presbyterian Church from 8am to 8pm. I’m honored to bring God’s Word at 9am, 11am and 6pm as we reflect on Psalm 139 and pray that God would stretch us to step toward His will with our whole lives as we seek to bless the city of LA.

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Beauty in Skid Row

My church in downtown Los Angeles is in the beautiful and diverse community of Little Tokyo, but also happens to be just two blocks from the homeless capital of the U.S., Skid Row.

Many groups come to bring Jesus to this needy community where hundreds sleep on the streets every night and thousands more have found temporary and permanent housing with great organizations like Union Rescue Mission, where I serve on the Board of Directors with Andy Bales. But like my friend, O.G., who leads a Skid Row Clean-Up Brigade, always reminds me, “God is already with us in Skid Row!”

A young artist has set up a temporary art exhibit called Sacred Streets and I hope you will come and visit. The artist has not only made beautiful art but captured the beauty that exists amidst the dehumanizing conditions that Skid Row is known for. God is truly among the least of these whom Jesus knows by name.

Come and see the people that Jesus already knows very well in a new light on their own turf. I believe you will leave with great hope that God has not forgotten the tens-of-thousands who find themselves without a home in L.A. County every night. You’ll see the beauty that God sees in the darkness and perhaps you will choose to be part of the solution. It begins by seeing with God’s eyes and this project is a chance to see in a new way.

You can even come and worship with us in downtown L.A. and then walk down to the exhibit this Sunday afternoon. I hope you’ll join us!

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Knowing God’s Will

Our church in downtown Los Angeles has been reflecting on Romans 12 to discern some spiritual habits that might help position ourselves to be shaped into the likeness of Christ, which is the destiny of every believer (Romans 8:29). Habits like prayer, generosity, celebration, silence, slowing down and, of course, Scripture reading.

But the purpose of Scripture is not to simply memorize more. God wants us to soak in Scripture not for information, but for transformation. An amazing promise that Paul speaks of in Romans 12:2 is that as one in being transformed by renewing of the mind–certainly including Scripture as part of this renewal training–is that God’s will would become more clear to the believer.

A writer tells a story of when she was seventeen and went on a mission trip to the Amazon River sensing God’s call to be a missionary. She spent days working with kids and doing the work of the Lord amongst the poor. One night, toward the end of trip she stood alone on the edge of the boat and marveled at the beautiful water before her and asked,“God, just tell me. Please, just tell if I’m supposed to be a missionary.” What she received was not an audible voice but what she believes to this day to be a confirmation of the Spirit speaking to her:

“Look at this river. Look at its depth. See how wide it spreads. My love is like this, as wide as you can see but moving. Always moving. This is what you need to know: Stay in the river. Let it carry you. Let it cover every part of you, head to toe. Dip under it. Swim in it. Float on it. But always choose this river. Stay in my Love.There will be different boats. You’ll get on and it will move you along. You’ll stop at a village and you’ll get out. Love the people in that village. Give them what you have to offer. And when I tell you to, get back on the boat.There will be different villages and there will be different boats. You don’t have to worry about those things. What matters in the river…Stay on the river.”

We get caught up in which boat and which village, but God wants us in the river of His will. We want to know whom to marry, which house to buy, where to go to school, what job to accept? God’s will has more to do than the questions most of us like to ask. In fact, God’s will becomes more clear when we begin asking the right questions.

When my wife Kati and I worked with college students at our previous churches, there were always some predictable things students wanted God to reveal to them. Questions about who to date, when they’d get married, what career path to take and which graduate school to go to (UCLA of course!). I liked to challenge them to consider that they’re asking the wrong questions. What if your conversations with God sounded more like this: How can I be filled with more contentment? What kind of habits will help me be more generous with my time and money? What areas in my life do You, Lord, want me to deal with so that I can serve You better? These are the kind of prayers that align more readily with the good, acceptable and perfect will of God that Paul promises will be revealed when we spend time in God’s Word. It’s not so much like getting the answer to which door has the prize behind it leading to money, success and happiness, but how we can go deeper with God and be changed into the people God wants us to be.

God’s will has more to do with staying in the river than the specific village you are in. Imagine being with God for a million years and then realize how every village or city in which God has called you is a certain call but for a season. For that season work with everything to serve the Lord and bless the city. But His will is that you stay in the river of His love. Spend time with Him. Make unhurried time for others. Practice generosity. Position yourself to be shaped into His likeness. Sit with God’s Word, even when it doesn’t seem to be improving your life! Ask God the kind of questions that focus more on Him transforming you then Him informing you. You want to know God’s will? Read John 14:1. “Trust in God. Trust also in Me.” (NIV). His will is always that you will trust Him more, as you offer your body as a living sacrifice.

Psalm 1 is worth meditating on as we seek to spend time soaked in Scripture to be transformed and not just informed. My paraphrase: “Blessed are those who delight in the Law of the Lord for they are like trees planted by the streams of water who are fruitful and don’t wear out.” And Jesus’ words in John 15 emphasizes this as well: “I am the Vine and you are the branches…Remain in Me…You can’t do anything without Me.”

If you don’t want to wear out then stay connected to Jesus. Start asking better questions that position yourself to take in all that God has for you. Spend time in God’s Word to be transformed and step into your destiny as ones who are continually being shaped into Christ’s likeness, giving a hurting world a glimpse of the goodness of God until He returns again.

Let’s stay in the river.

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What Solar Panels Have to do With Following Jesus

I tend to lean on the frugal side growing up in a modest Asian-American family. Perhaps I inherited it from my grandpa Lim who used to twist off the stems of pears before the grocery clerk weighed it because, “Every little bit counts.” That’s a true story. It should come to no surprise, then, that amidst this cold weather in downtown and throughout Los Angeles (34 degrees in January!) that I tend not to turn on the heater in our house because it just ends up escaping through our poorly insulated walls, doors and windows and costs us a fortune. I’d don’t like being cold but like even less wasting money. In an ideal world I’d have solar panels installed but they’re still quite a bit out of our price range as it stands. Plus, I want to save up for this new kind of solar panel that will revolutionize the industry.

Rotating solar panels adjust the angle of the panels on your roof depending on the position of the sun during the day. It makes sense to position the panels to maximize the intake of sunlight that is already there. I can’t wait for these to come to the residential market. My wife can’t wait, too, and until then we’ll keep layering to stay warm!

The spiritual life has some connections here. Reading through Romans 12 with our church in downtown L.A. has brought us into a season of heeding the Apostle Paul’s challenge to be “transformed”. It’s a passive verb which means that God is the instigator and we are the recipient of this transformation. So what’s our role in the transformation process? It’s like the solar panels. God’s love, light and grace are constantly present but often we aren’t positioned to intake all that He offers. If we want to grow more like Jesus we need to rearrange our lives around habits that will help us to live and act as Jesus did. In this sense the spiritual disciplines or habits aren’t an end in themselves but rather help us position ourselves to intake the Christ-shaping love and light that is constantly available to us. Being shaped like Christ is actually our destiny (Romans 8:29) and God is the One ultimately in charge of shaping us (Philippians 1:6) but we are called to position ourselves as to maximize the process. The spiritual disciplines and habits like prayer, reading the bible, practicing generosity, silence, solitude, serving, celebrating, etc.

We hinder the process of transformation by making the disciplines an end in themselves. You would never think that the purpose of putting up solar panels is to put up solar panels, right? Likewise when we add prayer, bible reading or fasting to our spiritual training regimen, the goal is not to simply add more stuff for us to do but to be shaped into Christ-likeness.

What could you do to position yourself to make yourself more available for God’s constant love, light and grace? What is your heart and mind currently positioned toward that might be hindering your transformation into Christ-likeness? In other words, what are you seeking to fill you your life (a job, spouse, reputation, achievement, justice for a past wrong)?

As we approach Lent, let’s consider how God might want to position ourselves to intake all that He wants to gift us with so we can step into our destiny as Christ-shaped people, full of joy, who impact the cities in which we live. If you’d like to listen to our sermon series at the Bridge  you can click here.

 

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Connecting Faith and Work: Oct. 31 luncheon

Connecting your faith and your work is not an easy thing to do. I think about my context in downtown L.A. which has a daytime population of upwards of 500,000 people who have the potential to positively impact our city. I like to mention each week at church that our goal is to “Love God and Bless the City.” I want help Christians consider that God has brought them to L.A. for a purpose to bless the city, not necessarily to bless themselves, and this luncheon will be an opportunity to consider this call and recommit to living it out.

Our main speaker will be Livingstone Mukasa, a successful businessman and the founder and leader of Living Business Training in Kampala, Uganda. In this role Livingstone has provided practical business training to more than 5000 poor micro-entrepreneurs in Africa, many of whom now have successful small businesses.

You’ll also get to meet leaders from the Union Rescue Mission, Los Angeles Mission, Central City Community Outreach, Industrial District Green (beautifying Skid Row), Purpose Built Communities and Apartment Life. You’ll be challenged to use your professional talents and resources to make an impact globally and locally.

So I hope you’ll come to our luncheon on Oct. 31. You’ll be glad you joined us. ($5 suggested donation for lunch)

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Updated with new details: Miracle Moments Amidst the Trial

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Last June, Martin came to the Bridge at Union Church to help at our worship service, just as he’s been doing the past several months with us in downtown L.A. I met Martin after he entered a Christian rehab and ministry training program last year called Teen Challenge. He was miraculously discovered by his estranged sister while homeless and begging for change on the streets. But that story is for another post!

Martin came to the Bridge that Sunday in June and happened to mention to one of volunteers, Nick, that he had to go back to Fresno to face a judge because he unknowingly still had two outstanding arrest warrants that he was never notified of. Martin already had two strikes and these two arrest warrants were part of his former life of drugs and gangs. Even though he had gotten his life straightened out through Teen Challenge these warrants meant that Martin–now clean and a life of crime behind him–was facing a possible 10-25 years in prison.

Nick mentioned that we had a young lawyer, Josh, at our church and perhaps he could help Martin out with some advice. Martin shared with Josh his predicament and Josh explained that he was a corporate lawyer with no criminal defense background, but he did have a friend who was a criminal defense lawyer and would be willing to write a joint letter that Martin could bring and show the judge. Josh didn’t think his letter would do much but he promised to pray for Martin.

As Martin travelled up to Fresno to face the judge, Josh and his wife Lindsey spent the week in prayer that the judge would be gracious to Martin, this man who had sincerely changed the trajectory of his life and now wanted to give his life in service to the community to help others leave a life of homelessness, drug abuse and crime. Martin faced the judge and the judge asked Martin what his life was like now. Martin explained he was in Teen Challenge and that whether in prison or free, that he would serve the Lord. Martin knew that he could easily spend at least 10 years in prison for these outstanding warrants. Martin handed the judge the letter from the young attorney Josh and his friend the criminal defense lawyer. The judge asked, “How do you know these lawyers?” Martin explained that he went to this church in downtown LA called the Bridge and that one of the members was a lawyer who had a friend who was a criminal defense lawyer. The judge then said, “I know this lawyer. I went to law school with him!” Then the judge also shared another amazing fact: his own brother went through Teen Challenge as well, so he knew that integrity of the program!

Miraculously, the judge deemed that Martin would not serve any prison time and was released into the ongoing care of Teen Challenge! Instead of Martin spending 10 to 25 years in prison, he is free to serve the Lord and tell others of the miracle of God’s redeeming work in Christ.

A friend who is in Teen Challenge with Martin shared this word of encouragement with me recently: “Pastor Tim, if you and your wife didn’t obey God and leave Newport Beach to come to downtown LA, then Martin would probably be sitting in a prison right now!” I couldn’t help but think about Ephesians 2:10 which talks about how God prepares good works in advance for us to do. Think of all the details that had to come together for this miracle to happen. First, the miracle that Kati and I would leave our wonderful ministry in Newport Beach to serve in LA. Second, that Josh and his wife would make the Bridge their home church. Thirdly, that I would build a relationship with Teen Challenge a year ago such that they would send two volunteers every week to the Bridge. Fourthly, that Martin would be sent to serve at the Bridge out of the dozens of other men who could have been assigned to us. Fifthly, that Josh was there that Sunday before Martin faced the judge. Sixthly, that Josh knew this criminal defense lawyer who cowrote the letter for Martin. Seventhly, that the judge had gone to law school with the criminal defense lawyer. Eighthly, that the judge’s own brother had been in Teen Challenge!

Josh would be the first to tell you that his letter didn’t do a thing. Martin would be the first to tell you that it wasn’t any words that he shared with the judge that brought this gracious decision. I would be the first to tell you that I had no idea coming to the Bridge would bring this kind of modern-day-miracle. God did this and His goodness is revealed through all of these little details.

God’s graciousness was revealed in this moment and Martin continues to study ministry at Teen Challenge and serve us at the Bridge. Josh continues to work his corporate lawyer job but has also now connected Teen Challenge to Christian Legal Aid, to assist others like Martin with legal issues related to their troubled pasts.

In the midst of desperate but hopeful prayer, God removed a judgement that society could have legally leveled against another third-striker like Martin. God had been at work far before I ever even considered coming to LA. I was an unknowing vessel in God’s intricate plan. God can do the same through you. 

I’m so grateful that at the Bridge we are building a community of diverse people who offer unique gifts and talents as we share our unique brokenness and needs. The Spirit is working amongst an imperfect people who are making themselves available to be used by God.

Scripture says that God has been planning good works for you to discover and walk into as you make yourself available (Ephesians 2:10). I don’t understand why God’s goodness is revealed clearly in some trials and not in others, but let’s walk in the confidence that our God is good and is ready to help those who call out to Him, whatever their circumstances.

Are you willing to be available for God to use your time, talent and treasure to accomplish God’s work? Be available today for God just might use you in a small way to carry out a miracle for someone else who is facing devastating circumstances or everyday trials.

 

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